Recently I had gotten out of the "borg". In the "borg" I was discouraged from even dating a girl, since my mother was overprotective and wanted to let me at least be single for awhile before I decided to settle down. Turning 26, I've been able to hang around some "sisters", but sad enough I've never been able to date them. And even sadder, I've never even kissed a girl yet. I'm freaking 26 years old and I haven't even kissed a girl yet. Right now, you might think that I'm not that good of a looking guy. To the contrary. Many sisters have told my fleshly sister that I'm cute but they didn't want to date me. Wanna know why? They thought I was too spiritual. ??? If only they could see me now.
What I want to say is, I know how your sister feels. I am actually smart and handsome according to my family and friends, and I always wanted to find a sister that was smart and funny and we'd be able to discuss about subjects that most guys wouldn't even think about. However, I had never even come close to finding that sister. I've asked a couple of them if they'd like to date, but they then say they already have a boyfriend. This has confused me many times, especially when they would look my way during meetings and we'd have eye contact for a bit. It's a very disturbing game, the game of love, and especially now for me, since I'm not a witness anymore and I will never go back. It will be hard to see "worldly" women as ones not being from the devil. But I figure that it'll work out some way or another.
As for your sister, tell her from a witness that used to know (at least when I was a witness) that even a guy feels that way. I've always wondered if there would be the right sister for me and if God would direct me to her. It never happened and I'm actually glad it didn't. Cause if it did, I would most likely still be a part of the "collective" and be stuck with a wife who would probably not be able to change her views. I am glad of the decisions that I've made now, and I will be glad with the decisions I make in the future. Tell your sister that she is a wonderful person and that's all that matters.